Mr. & Mrs. Right Now

Remember when we were kids and you would pass that little boy or girl a note that said: Do you like me? Check yes or no. If they checked no, that was your girlfriend/boyfriend and that was that. Why is it that some of y'all still have that mentality- you just like someone, they like you back so its like fuck it- we're an item!!! I hate to break it to you but its not that simple, we wish it was but it is not. If you geniuses haven't caught on yet to what I am talking about, I am talking about relationships.

Okay so I'm gonna keep it G-don't get into a relationship if you cannot handle the responsibility of a relationship. If you just want to shone a lil' bit (shone-whore) and you know deep down inside you ain't shit- don't drag someone else into your confusion. I don't believe there is somebody for everybody. I think that some people are meant to be single. I am a realist and I believe people can have a Mr. Right or Mrs. Right but lets be frank.... until you know who you are and you are done evolving as a person you will run into a whole lot of Mr. Right Nows and Mrs. Right Nows. If you are a person who is into the developement of self on various levels, this may be the part of life that may seem incomplete. The reason why is because the person you were last year, you aren't this year...hell the person you were 2 months ago you aren't today.

Why do we continue to lie to ourselves about what it is that we can offer someone at the point you are in, in your life? If all you can offer someone is dick and an occasional outing... let her know up front. If you are super focused on your career and have limited time, let dude know that he isn't a main priority but you need him there for companionship. IT'S REAL SIMPLE. And people walking around here saying they are the realest. The main attribute in being the realist is not lying to yourself. Once you stop that you can't lie to someone else, you don't want the aggrevation of maintaining the lie if you got some sense. So to avoid future heart ache look at everyone as Mr. or Mrs. Right Now because the chances that someone is going to evolve at the same pace as you is highly unlikely. Remember nothing that comes stays and nothing that goes is lost!