Gimme That Gushy!

I bet you saw the title of this page and said to yourself- What the
hell is this about? Well this page is dedicated to Personal
Lubricants- something that for some reason most women and men do
not think is needed in the bedroom. Before I go into the types of
lubes, I want to first explain why if you don't have anything else
in your sexual arsenal, you must always have lube on deck!


What exactly is lube and why do I need it?

Personal Lubricants are specialized lubes for sexual activity.
There purpose is simple to avoid friction on the penis, vagina and
anus (or wherever else you may choose to penetrate) during
intercourse as well as provides wetness for oral sex. Personal
lubes are essential during sexual acts because they not only
protect the penis, vagina and anus from trauma but provide more
stimulation during sex play. This is why they always say "Wetter is
Better".

Types of Lubricants

Water-based

Safe for use in genitals and anus. Can be used w/latex condoms and
diaphrams. During oral sex, you can ingest small amounts. Will not
stain clothes or sheets but some may be irritated or allergic to
it. DO NOT use as a massage lotion or on large areas of skin.
During extended love making sessions it can dry out because
purified water is one of the key ingredients. Just apply water or
saliva to replenish. Can rise water-based lubes off with warm,
moist washcloth. This is the most natural feeling lubricant.

Oil-based

This includes vegetable oil (olive oil and corn oil), butter &
nut oils (avocado, peanut and the like). They double as a massage
oil and lube and you can swallow them during sex. They are safe to
use during sex w/ condoms, diaphrams & cervical caps, although
the greasiness can cause condoms to slip off. BE CAREFUL. These
lubes can provoke or encourage vaginal infections. Another issue
with this type of lube is they may stain clothes and linens. To
remove, it takes a lot of hot water and soap. Can also cause latex
condoms to weaken or tear.



Petroleum-based

Made from petroleum jelly, mineral oil, or petroleum- vaseline or
baby oil. This destroys the latex and should NEVER be used w/
condoms, diaphrams or cervical caps. They should NEVER be used in
the vaginal since they irritate the vaginal lining and can change
the vaginal chemistry which will lead to infection. It can also
irritate outside of the vagina. It should NEVER be ingested and can
stain clothes and linens. Most couples prefer them for anal
play.



Silicone-based

Silicone-based lubes are different from all the above mentioned
lubes because it isn't absorbed by the skin, it sits on the
surface. Since it has that property, it doesn't dry out like
water-based lubricants. Not all of these lubes are condom safe so
make sure you read the label. This type of lubricant is especially
great for marathon sex and anal sex. You should NEVER use this type
of lube with silicone based sex toys- they will stick onto the
surface of the toy causing the toy to slowly melt away.



Specialty Lubes

This category includes warming lubricants, edible lubricants.
Warming lubricants can create a heating sensations by rubbing on
them or blowing on them. Edible lubes are used more so for oral
sex.



Anal Lubes

Most lubricants are good for anal sex but you may want to stick
with a thicker variety like a gel lubricant. Most anal lubricants
contain benzocaine which is a numbing agent to make anal entry
easier and reduce discomfort. Products containing benzocaine will
numb all body parts that it comes in contact with.





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